A Life of Generosity
What does generosity mean to you? When you think of someone who is particularly generous, what qualities come to mind? Over the years of my life as a financial advisor, I have been deeply moved by how many generous people I have met. It is an attitude that leads to a much deeper and more satisfying life.
The word “generous” comes to us from the old French word “genereux.” The early English version was literally a way of saying “to belong to nobility.” Over time, it evolved from a family heritage concept related to birth status to more of a nobility of spirit associated with admirable qualities: courage, strength, gentleness, and fairness.
Finally, in the 18th century it came to mean open-handedness and liberality in giving of money and possessions to others. It is now not viewed as a normal trait of ordinary people, but one practiced by those of higher quality or greater goodness. So, it is something we can grow into regardless of our birth-right. [1]
The Judeo-Christian tradition emphasizes that the faithful have a duty to God to show generous hospitality to strangers. The Hebrew Bible emphasized kindness to aliens, widows, orphans, and the poor as part of God’s covenantal promise toward Israel. They are repeatedly reminded that “you were strangers in the land of Egypt.”
This theme is found repeatedly in the New Testament. The Apostle Paul considered generosity of the churches as proof of their genuine character of Christian love. Paul reminds the churches of this quality of Christ who, “though he was rich, yet for your sake he became poor.” II Corinthians 8:9
Generosity is the willingness to give something to others – that may be money, gifts, time, etc. Generosity of spirit is a way of showing up in the world and relating to others with an attitude of kindness, patience, respect, and willingness to remain open to the possibility inherent in connection.
If you are one who desires to be more generous but find too many financial constraints to accomplish it, I recommend you explore the idea of setting a financial finish line. It involves putting together a specific strategy and implementing a plan to get there. I highly recommend you read an article published by the National Christian Foundation found at https://www.ncfgiving.com/stories/enough-should-you-set-a-financial-finish-line/
Dennis J. Rogers, CPA, CFP® is a Registered Principal offering securities and advisory services through United Planners Financial Services. Member FINRA/SIPC. The information contained in this article is general in nature. You should seek professional tax and financial advice prior to implementing any of these ideas. FireSky Financial and United Planners Financial Services are not affiliated. Dennis is a partner in a financial advisory practice in Phoenix that focuses on helping clients make smart decisions about their money based on their personal core values. He can be reached at drogers@FireSkyFinancial.com or 602-748-1900.
[1] University of Notre Dame, College of Arts and Letters, “What Is Generosity,” www.generosity research.nd.edu